Over the past few crazy months, international travel has largely been a no go. Meaning the hot backpacking sex, casual hookups with foreigners, and uninhibited sex abroad has been off the cards for many.
However, it’s not all doom and gloom. In fact, there’s light on the horizon and it looks like international travel will soon be back to normal. In the meantime, why not take this opportunity to brush up on your international hookup skills?
Frankly, it’s a sin that not enough people take advantage of jaunts abroad to expand their sexual horizons. It’s a chance to experience new erotic cultures, unseen sexual experiences, and gain some unbeatable travel sex stories.
“Get a private room at a hostel. Dormitories are ok, but the retired German tourist on the bunk above you probably doesn’t wanna listen to you make an 18-year-old backpacker cum at 2:00am”
So today, I’m going to cover my top five techniques for hooking up whilst travelling. Whether you’re male, female, gay, straight, bi, or otherwise, this guide will help you along. We’ll be looking at stuff like:
- How a free walking tour can be a goldmine for casual hookups in foreign cities.
- The realm of European sex parties and how they can provide a wealth of sexual adventures for backpackers.
- How to bag a succesful couchsurfing hookup.
And much more! So join us as we venture into the world of backpacking sex and I share my tried and tested secrets for hooking up whilst travelling. First off, let’s look at the humble world of the hostel.
How to have casual backpacking sex in a hostel
You’ve probably all seen Fake Hostel, right? You know, the porn series that sees innocent young backpackers check into a hostel only to end up fucked senseless by the horny owner?
Obviously, that’s just porn. But hostels around the world are a magnet for casual sex too. I mean, just look at them. They’re full of open-minded, free-spirited people who are on a high of travelling to destinations they’ve always wanted to visit.
Stuff like the Eiffel Tower is great and all, but a rigorous fuck with an international lover can certainly make an iconic destination even more memorable. But how do you go about having some good hostel sex? I’m gonna show you how in 3 simple steps:
- Step 1 – Find the right hostel: Not all hostels are created equal. Don’t go booking into some cheap hellhole hoping to find an abundance of horny travelers. Instead, do your research and find one that’s popular amongst the backpacker crowd, has events like pub crawls and parties, and isn’t confined by a string of boring rules.
- Step 2 – Book a private room: Ok, not mandatory, but a good tip. Whilst dormitories are great for striking up conversation with fellow travellers, they’re not so great for fucking. Most people wanna sleep and hearing you make a 20-year-old backpacker cum probably isn’t for them. Plus, if you do get lucky with a fellow budget traveller, a private room is a big draw. After all, who doesn’t want the awesome combo of an escape from a dorm and some hard loving?
- Step 3 – Hangout in the common area: All hostels have a bar or common area. This is a great place to score casual hookups. The best thing is, there’s lots of conversation starters. Talk about destinations in the city, ask for or give advice, and swap travel stories. So many great ways to form a connection with potential hookups.
So if you’re looking for cheap backpacker sex then always opt for a private room in a hostel than a hotel. They can provide a buffet of international sex partners and memories to cherish for a lifetime.
Attend a European sex party
Visiting Europe and looking for some unforgettable backpacking sex? Well trust me, there’s more to this continent than world-class museums and tourist sights. In my opinion, a visit to Europe without attending a European sex party is a visit wasted.
From London to Amsterdam and Berlin to Prague, there are regular European sex parties taking place across major towns and cities across the continent. These can range from wild swinger parties to uninhibited gangbangs.
They’re mostly all legal, regulated, and well-advertised online. Don’t worry, there’s no requirement to play. You’re able to attend, soak up the atmosphere and just watch if that’s what you want to do.
But if you want to get involved, you can do so with a willing partner. These sex parties are sometimes themed with BDSM or fetish events. So it’s worth doing your research on what’s on. Here are my top three favourite European sex parties:
- Insomnia in Berlin, Germany.
- Sanctum BDSM parties in London, UK.
- The Fantasy Swingers Club in Prague, Czech Republic.
There’s sometimes a strict dress code that needs to be adhered to, especially in cities like Berlin. But overall, they’re a welcoming place for backpacker sex and a great way to hook up whilst travelling.
Get laid through a Couchsurfing hookup
Couchsurfing is a site that connects budget backpackers with affordable and often casual hosts in towns and cities around the world. The guest gets a local experience for a cheap price and the host gets some income and the chance to interact with foreigners.
But did you know that there is an underbelly to Couchsurfing that often sees hosts fucking their guests? It’s true! This site is often used by horny travellers and hosts alike to meet potential sex partners for a casual fling.
“Even if sex is not an explicit motivation for travel, sexual encounters may be facilitated through opportunities to meet new people, (such as) the loosening of social taboos controlling sexual expression and a sense of anonymity that being away from home confers” –– Clare Tanton, PhD, of the research department of infection and population health at University College London
Of course, sex isn’t guaranteed and shouldn’t be expected. But there are a few things you can look out for that can signal a potential host is a bit of a freak in the sheets with their guests. For example:
- Check out the profile of the host. If their friendslist is mostly people of the opposite-sex, it’s likely they indulge in casual hookups.
- Check out their reviews. There’s often a subtle language used by Couchsurfers to describe more open-minded people. Look out for stuff like ”A lot of fun”, ”she’s a party person”, or ”very outgoing”. All are good signs that the host did more than just fluff up the pillows.
But again, sex is not a given. If it happens, great! But don’t try to pressure anyone into sex, or generally, be weird. That’s not cool.
Seeking a city sex guide? Go on a free walking tour!
Next up is a massively underrated way to pick up fuck buddies for backpacker sex: The free walking tour! This affordable way to see a new city is a common staple across many major capitals, especially in Europe.
It works on a tip basis. The guide gives you a free tour, usually around two hours, and if he’s any good he gets tips. They’re very popular and attract a huge range of age groups. In particular, they’re a magnet for solo travellers looking to make friends in a new city.
Personally, I had some of the wildest sex I experienced in Europe through one of these walking tours. I did one in Belgrade, Serbia and hooked up with a middle aged Turkish MILF who was travelling alone.
We struck up conversation in the tour, went out for a few drinks afterwards, and I had a tight Turkish pussy sitting on my face by the evening. Moral of the story? I got more than a lesson on the fall of Yugoslavia that day.
You see, these tours are a gem. The tour guide, if they’re good, will try their best not to bore the group as he gets his tips at the end. So his dialogue is often brief and the tour involves a lot of walking to different destinations in the city you’re in.
These periods of walking from place to place is the ideal time to strike up a conversation with your fellow tour group members. What do you think of the city so far? He/she is a great guide, right?
You’re all there for the same reason, so it’s easy to find common ground. Just try your best to spark a conversation and you’ll get the energy flowing.
Keep the conversation going throughout the tour, then just make the move to go out for a drink or whatever at the end. Trust me, they’re a goldmine! But don’t forget to tip your guide, karma is real!
Meet locals for sex through leading hookup apps
Whilst all of the methods outlined in this guide can get you an exotic wet pussy or a throbbing continental cock, this list wouldn’t be complete without paying homage to one of the OGs of hooking up whilst travelling: Hookup apps!
Whether you’re looking for an open-minded MILF to accompany you to a European sex party or seeking a not-so-innocent Asian tourist for wild sex, a good hookup app will have you covered.
If you’re looking for a local hookup app to meet like-minded horny people, then I recommend Adult Friend Finder. Mainstream apps like Tinder are ok, but trying to sift through the hundreds of profiles of people seeking NSA fun and not a full-on relationship can be tedious.
AFF, in comparison, cuts out the bullshit. It’s the largest adult dating community and is used by everyone from backpackers to experienced swingers seeking hardcore fetish sex. So sign up here to revolutionize hooking up whilst travelling!
Now, get out there and start collecting travel sex stories!
In conclusion, it’s finally looking like travel is making a comeback. So prepare yourself to hit the backpacking trail once again for a renewed sexual adventure.
If this article has taught you one thing, it’s that there is an abundance of methods to have some wild, affordable, and fun backpacking sex.
Still unable to travel? Don’t worry, just check out Fake Hostel instead and use it for inspiration until you can!
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