10 Kinds of Sexy Hooker Slang From BBBJ to CFNM

The world of legal escorts and prostitution is a world that is also surrounded by misinformation and a lack of knowledge.

As an ex-working girl myself, and with my increasing number of articles covering the world of prostitution, I’m trying to change that.

Today, we’re delving deeper into the paid sex space by examining some common and little-known types of hooker slang used in the sex industry.

If you want to find out how hookers describe things like:

  • Tying a man down and sensually masturbating his erect cock before milking the contents of his balls.
  • Why dining at the Y would have world-class reviews if it were an actual restaurant!
  • The world of urethra play is not for everybody, but a world of immense pleasure for some.

Then join me as we explore the little-known language spoken in brothels and bordellos around the world.

By the end of this article, you will be fluent in the main tenants of hooker slang!

15The Porn Star Experience (PSE)

The porn star experience (PSE)

Porn is wonderful. But the scenes we’re often exposed to are not representative of the everyday sex of most people.

Unless you find a well-experienced sex partner with the ability to perform like a pornstar, this is an experience commonly provided by sex workers.

The porn star experience, or PSE, can range massively depending on a client’s kinky tastes and fantasies.

For example, if a guy wants an upside-down pornstar blowjob with hardcore deepthroating and enough spit to sink the Titanic, he’ll opt for this service.

“Of course, these abbreviations and slang aren’t solely used by the sex worker community. They can also be found in use amongst BDSM and swinging circles, too. But knowing them will make your search easier!”

Additionally, the PSE can involve a range of other things seen in hardcore porn. Spanning anything from anal gape fucking and squirting to a BDSM mistress experience or cum facials.

Many well-prepared clients will provide a working girl with their favourite porn clip as an example to follow during the appointment.

Although all sex workers don’t offer this service, it’s known as PSE in the realm of hooker slang.

14What Is CFNM?

what is CFNM

Who doesn’t love sex with a woman in an erotic outfit? The only issue is, that outfit usually has to come off at some point.

But it doesn’t have to! In hooker slang, CFNM stands for clothed female naked male.

Often with a domination and submission aspect, this involves a female sex worker staying clothed whilst providing sexual services or humiliation to the naked male. Often featured in BDSM, it doesn’t have to be.

CFNM is also enjoyed by men who love to see women perform sex acts on them whilst dressed in particular outfits like an office secretary, female soldier, horse rider etc. It can result in an intensely erotic endeavour.

13MFM Sex

MFM Group sex

The conventional view of prostitution is that it takes place between a sole sex worker and a single client, but the reality is often different.

Many prostitutes and escorts equally offer their services to groups of men seeking a group sex experience.

Whilst the client will, of course, make up one member of the kinky trio, the second male can be either a friend of the client or a friend of the sex worker.

The latter is often a well-experienced stud who aims to provide a memorable sexual experience.

“Some of the more ‘greedy girls’ will expand this abbreviation to MMMMFM to signal their availability for larger groups and gangbangs.

In hooker slang, this is known as MFM sex and stands for male-female-male. This type of fun involves everything like spitroasts, double blowjobs, and double penetration sex (DP).

Of course, it’s not just restricted to one woman and two men. Some will also advertise FFM with the availability of a female friend who can also get involved.

Some of the more ”greedy girls” will expand this abbreviation to MMMMFM to signal their availability for larger groups and gangbangs.

12BDSM Milking

what is BDSM milking

Amongst the varied world of BDSM services offered by sex workers, milking in hooker slang is used to describe an intensely erotic and humiliating sex act.

Through the use of toys and prostate massages, it encourages a man to ejaculate as much spunk as possible.

This is often combined with bondage. A traditional BDSM milking session will simulate the forced milking of cum from a man’s member while he is tied up and almost ‘experimented’ on with various sex toys.

An increasingly common service is a milking table. A man will lie face down with his cock sliding through a Gloryhole.

Below, a sex worker proceeds to milk his cock for as much cum as possible. Post-orgasm torture can also be included if the client wishes.

11What is a BBBJ? (Bareback Blowjob)

What is a BBBJ in hooker slang

From PSE to CFNM, you’ve probably realised that hooker slang involves a lot of acronyms and abbreviations.

Well, we have yet another one for you! Now we move on to the BBBJ service, but what on earth is it?

BBBJ stands for a bareback blow job in hooker slang. Many sex workers, as standard, will suck cock with a condom in order to protect the sexual health of themselves and their clients.

However, many working girls may offer a non-protected blow job as an extra service. So kiss that condom goodbye!

Feeling the warm, wet, and tantalizing feeling of a mouth over your throbbing member is naturally preferable for many men over the much safer covered blowjob.

But always use common sense and respect the wishes of any sex worker who refuses to perform a BBBJ.

10CBT BDSM

What is CBT in BDSM

Next is an escort service you certainly don’t want to order by mistake! In the world of hooker slang, CBT stands for cock and ball torture.

This is not for the faint-hearted but is a dream come true for the kinksters who love a bit of pain and pleasure.

It involves one person, usually a woman, inflicting various levels of pain on the genitals of a willing man.

This can range from impact play that sees the cock and balls slapped, spanked, or whipped to having your nether regions drenched in hot wax or even pierced.

Whilst the thought might make some of you wince and cringe, countless kinky men around the world enjoy it. Particularly those who love humiliation and get a sexual thrill from pain.

Again, this is one of the services offered by sex workers that I highly recommend you find an experienced, trustworthy, and responsible person to carry out.

Particularly if you’re veering into the more extreme side. In which case, always have a safe word!

9Escort Pussy Worship

PUSSY WORSHIP DINING AT THE Y

Outside the sex industry, the term pussy worship is used to describe a common BDSM practice where the vagina is worshipped in sex and beyond through things like literature and art.

In the sex industry, however, the term is used to describe a particular service for kinky men.

You see, a large number of men get a kick out of worshipping a pussy that has seen a significant number of lovers before them.

Essentially related to the cuckold fetish, it simply involves a client being permitted to have their face between the legs of a hooker and worship their pussy with their tongue.

This can also include face-sitting.

8Urethra Play

What is urethra play

Urethra play, otherwise known as sounding in hooker slang, is an often overlooked but very kinky type of play that many men opt for.

It involves a sounding rod inserted down the urethra of the penis. Yes, lads, that’s the pee hole!

Why the hell would I want to do that? I hear some of you shout. Well, whilst the urethra might be incredibly sensitive, it is also crammed with nerves.

In the same way as other body parts with a high nerve density, stimulating the urethra can feel amazing.

Plus, there is a huge range of sounding toys out there for one to experiment with. So finding an open-minded escort who offers such services can be an excellent way to broaden your sexual horizons.

But being a very sensitive part of the body, you also need to take great care during urethra play.

Always choose a play partner who knows what they’re doing, use lots of lube and be careful!

7What Does An Escort Mean By MSOG? (Multiple Shots on Goal)

It’s a common misconception that you only get one shot to cum when booking an escort. In reality, a lot of working girls will offer a service known as MSOG.

MSOG stands for Multiple Shots on Goal and means you can cum as often as you want during your appointment with an escort. Open fire!

This may only be included in longer sessions (1 hour or more) but varies from escort to escort. It’s a great bonus for those of you with a big libido or are heavy cummers!

6BDSM Femdom Mistress Services

BDSM mistress escort services

Now we come to one of the most commonly offered escort services around, the BDSM mistress package.

If whips, chains, and eye-watering strap-ons excite you, then this is the service you need.

BDSM Mistress services can vary wildly. There are many aspects, from humiliation and facesitting to financial domination and watersports.

The service is catered to the kinks and fetishes of each particular client.

Now, it’s worth noting that just because a prostitute may offer this service doesn’t mean to say she’s particularly good at it.

The accolade of becoming a true BDSM Mistress takes many years. So if you’re seeking this service for the first time, go with a dedicated Domme who specialises in it.

Top tip! A real BDSM Mistress escort will not sleep with her clients. Those who do are rarely professional Dommes and often just put some pegging strap-on sex into their regular services.

Speaking of which…

5Strap On For Men

Strap on sex for men

It’s normal for many men to desire the switch of roles in the bedroom. But this sometimes is seen as taboo. So many men opt for escort services rather than proposing it to their other half.

One of these role reversals is strap-on sex or pegging. It sees a woman don a rubber cock, lube that bad boy up, and fuck the willing hole of a man until he truly submits.

It can also involve elements of humiliation and BDSM and, most of the time, inherently does.

“It’s all about the reactions. Seeing them get sweet and needy and slutty just goes right to my crotch and my heart. Watching them feel so full is like nothing else.”

– ABinaryNunSweat

Whilst this service is offered by many working girls, it’s important for YOU to know what you want.

You might be spurred on by extreme strap-on porn and want the same. But hold your horses, my friend; your asshole will thank me.

A positive strap-on experience begins slow and steady. Don’t jump into big toys because you’ll only end up having a bad experience and potentially hurt yourself.

Work your way up through the world of pegging, ideally through a pro-Domme. Remember, it’s not a race!

4DSL (Dick Sucking Lips)

There are few things as beautiful as a plump pair of pink or red lips slobbering all over your cock, is there? If this sight floats your boat, you’ll likely be seeking an escort with DSL.

DSL stands for Dick Sucking Lips. The Bimbo type of girls usually advertises it, and Botox or lips fillers are common. Enjoy those cock pillows!

3FIV Escort

MILF escort relaxed at home and spreading her meaty pussy

When hooking up with an escort, you may be disappointed that some prefer not to have you explore their pussies with your fingers.

Each to their own, but not all escorts feel this way. Introducing the FIV escort!

FIV stands for Finger in Vagina and is used to describe escorts who loved being finger-fucked into ecstasy.

Personally, I’ve met many FIV escorts who have been able to take a rough finger blasting until they erupt in a fountain of squirt. Ahh, good memories!

2CFS (Covered Full Service) Is a Staple of The Amsterdam Prostitution Menu

Blowjob parlor in Vietnam

Whichever kinky destination you go to that has a thriving population of hookers and escorts, CFS (covered full service) is essentially the soup of the day.

Generally, it involves a covered blowjob and equally covered sex in a handful of positions until you cum. Then it’s a quick clean with a wet wipe, get dressed, and goodbye.

Fun and, hopefully, affordable way to get rid of your horn with no fuss. Don’t expect romance or tenderness.

To quote the dead-eyed Patsy Parisi from The Sopranos: It won’t be cinematic!” and CFS usually isn’t, either!

1DATY slang!

Our guides wouldn’t be complete without dropping a little bonus for you at the end, would it? One of our favourite types of hooker slang is DATY or Dining at the Y!

This slang is used to refer to the shape a woman makes when she spreads her legs which resembles the letter Y.

In hooker slang, DATY is used to advertise whether an escort is open to having her pussy eaten out by a client or not.

Summary

In conclusion, we’ve explored a vast range of various hooker slang. These words are important to know when discussing the services offered by a particular working girl. Both to know what you’re getting into and to avoid any confusion.

Of course, these abbreviations and slang aren’t solely used by the sex worker community. They can also be found in use amongst BDSM and swinging circles, too. But knowing them will make your search easier!

If you have a favourite piece of hooker slang you feel we’ve missed from this list, then feel free to drop it in the comments below.